Make file-notify-rm-watch robust against reentry

Make file-notify-rm-watch robust against reentry

Allow file-notify callbacks to call `file-notify-rm-watch', harmlessly,
after receiving a `stopped' event without triggering recursion.

* lisp/filenotify.el (file-notify--watch): Note that `callback' can be nil.
(file-notify--rm-descriptor): Set the `callback' field to nil before
sending `stopped'.
(file-notify-rm-watch): Don't do anything if the `callback' field is nil.